It’s the middle of November and you’re possibly starting to think about Christmas gifts. You’ve already decided that your friends Thelma and Louise will get some nice bubble bath gift sets. And cousin Vinnie will get a bottle of his favourite tipple and your nephew Charlie will get a giant size bar of chocolate. So that’s the easy ones dealt with. But then there’s that friend or relative who lives with chronic pain. You want to give a gift that they will love and appreciate but it’s so hard to know what to give. What kind of gifts can you give to people who live with pain?
How Do You Decide What Kind of Gifts to Give to People With Pain?
Let me start by saying that any gift will be loved and appreciated. When people are living with pain, it is always lovely to know that someone has thought about them and cared enough to buy a gift. But it’s extra special when they know that you’ve thought extra hard so that the gift is something they’ll be able to use, wear or enjoy.

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Gifts That People With Pain Will Love and Appreciate
Hopefully, you know their taste, their likes and dislikes. But even when you know them well, it can still be difficult to choose gifts for them. So here are a few gift ideas which people who are living with pain would hopefully love and appreciate.
Pyjamas, Dressing Gown or Nice Loungewear
Many of us need to spend a lot of time lying in bed but we don’t always want to look like we’re wearing pyjamas all day. Pyjamas and dressing gowns are useful but so is comfortable loungewear.
Fleece, Heated Throws and Weighted Blankets
When people are in pain, heat can often be comforting, so perhaps blankets would make perfect gifts. Weighted blankets can help people to relax and sleep better and are also excellent for children with anxiety or stress issues.
Winter Woollies
The temperatures are dropping and heating costs are rising, so winter woollies will be much-appreciated gifts this year. When we feel cold, our bodies can tense up which makes our pain even worse. So socks, scarves and silly Christmas jumpers will help to keep the cold at bay. And since we lose so much heat from our heads, a heated hat could be a fantastic gift.
Gifts Which Might Help People’s Pain
For this, you might need to discreetly ask some questions so that you know what helps and what doesn’t.
Heated Products From Huggaroo
I reviewed the Huggaroo neck and shoulder wrap a while ago and absolutely loved it. I have a couple of other Huggaroo items too and they are so good. They make microwaveable heat pads, weighted blankets, weighted plushies, gel ice packs, hot and cold eye masks and Sherpa fleece blankets. These are all amazing products which would be wonderful gifts to give to people who live with pain. Please click here to find Huggaroo products on Amazon.
My Huggaroo Neck and Shoulder Wrap Review
Other Hot or Cold Therapies
Heat can help some people but cold helps others and some people like both. If you know someone suffers from headaches, a cooling eye mask might be useful. Electrically heated vests and heating pads can be amazing but so are good old-fashioned hot water bottles (especially if they’re cute!) Reusable hand warmers can also be helpful.
Gadgets for Pain
There are also massage guns, massage cushions, massage mats, accupressure mats, Tens machines and loads of other gadgets which might help someone’s pain. However, I’d suggest talking to your friend or relative first if you were considering buying something like this. They may have tried and tested some in the past or they might prefer to research before trying.
Let’s Talk About Food and Drink…
Chocolate, sweets, nuts, speciality cheeses, chutneys or hampers are lovely gifts to receive. However, before spending money on something like this, please think about allergies or intolerances. Many people need to examine ingredient labels on all food or drink before eating due to a health condition.
So if you’re thinking of buying someone any type of food or drink, please find out if they have special dietary needs then check ingredients. If you don’t understand ingredient labels, this post might help you. But if you’re still confused by them, you could buy something from the free from section in the supermarket or give a voucher from a specialist manufacturer, like All But Gluten.
Frames, Pictures and Prints
It’s always nice to receive framed photos of pets or children or a favourite place. Paintings or prints are nice too if you know the person’s taste well enough. Or you could find a nice piece of fun wall art or something with an uplifting quote.
Fragrances, Skincare and Self-Care Products
People often think that perfumes, aftershave, bubble bath and body lotions make perfect gifts. And they do…for most people. But some people have sensitive skin or can’t tolerate certain fragrances. Some discreet investigating might be in order before buying.
Jewellery Gifts Which Might Help People With Pain
You’ll know your friend or relative’s taste in jewellery but certain types of jewellery (mainly copper and magnetic) are thought to help some pain conditions. I can’t say whether or not they do help, but I do know that most people with pain are willing to try anything. And, especially, if it looks nice, it could make a thoughtful gift.
Hobbies and Pastimes
Does your friend or relative love to read, listen to music or watch movies? If so, perhaps you could give them the latest book by their favourite author, an album by their favourite band, or a DVD. Of course, a voucher might be easier. Or if they don’t already have it, you could gift them with a subscription to Amazon Prime or Netflix.
Do they have a hobby? Perhaps you could give them a gift related to that. Magnifying lamps are useful for needlecraft projects, art, reading or even just to make crossword puzzles easier on the eyes. And no matter what the hobby, people seem to accumulate a lot of stuff, so storage bags or boxes could also be useful gifts. Or, if they don’t have a hobby, perhaps you could find something with might pique their interest. Hobbies can sometimes help to take their mind off their pain.
Techie Stuff
Everyone uses techie stuff nowadays and people who have pain possibly rely on it a lot.
Fun and Novel Gifts Could Be Perfect For People With Pain
A fun novelty gift is often perfect. People who live with pain, often don’t feel like laughing, so fun novelty gifts might make their day a little cheerier.
If You Still Have No Idea…
I hope some of my ideas have helped you, but if you’ve still no idea what to give to someone, perhaps ask if they have a wish list. They might give you some ideas, but if not, you could always give them a gift voucher so they can choose whatever they need or want.
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One Last Thought to Consider
Pain can be extremely debilitating meaning that shopping for gifts for other people is difficult, if not impossible. Also, when people are unable to work due to pain, they may not have the financial means to buy gifts.
If they tell you that they’d prefer to have a gift-free Christmas, set a price limit on gifts or do a secret Santa this year, please accept that. You may mean well by buying gifts for them, but often, if they are unable to reciprocate, they will feel extremely embarrassed and stressed. Stress makes pain worse and I’m sure that you’d really prefer not to be the cause of that.
Time, however, costs nothing, so perhaps you could give that.
Related Post: Give People the Gift of Time This Christmas
Time – The Gift of Your Time May Be the Best Gift for People With Pain
Living with pain can be extremely lonely. Friends, and even family, can often disappear. Please try not to be the one who disappears. Being there for your friend or relative could be the nicest gift they receive this Christmas. Your time may mean more to them than any other gift.

I love how you’ve started off by noting how any kind of gift would be loved and appreciated. I totally agree. Well, unless someone gave me a gym membership, then eh, not so much. And the ending is just spot on – the gift of time is financially free and worth its weight in gold.
To have someone think about you or want to get you something means so much. I love picking out gives because I do try to put thought into it to consider what that person would want, what they’d find useful and whether it’ll put a smile on their face. I love that process.
You’ve chosen some fab picks here. All the things I would recommend and would love to receive, too. Snugglies of all kinds are an absolute yes! So is jewellery, in my case at least. I don’t do gold, but just about anything else that’s cheap enough gets a huge thumbs up. So we may only get to wear cool earrings or a pretty necklace around the house, but so what? It’s the small things that can make us smile and bring some brightness to our days.
The gadgets are a great idea if that person has perhaps mentioned wanting to try them before, otherwise I agree, just mentioning it first might be worth doing if you’re not sure of their medical history or what they’ve tried before.
If you’re not too sure of what to go for then I think novelty gifts can be just as good as a useful present because the joy and chuckles are priceless.
Brilliant gifting ideas, Liz! xx