2020 has become such a frightening year, hasn’t it? The news about the coronavirus is so overwhelming that I have to try to distract myself at times. I’m coping fine with the lockdown because, like many other people who live with chronic health conditions, I don’t go out much anyway. However, a lot of healthier people are struggling to cope with the lockdown and the isolation it brings. Most of them are used to living busy, active lives, therefore spending time cooped up at home is probably a difficult adjustment for them.
How to Cope With the Lockdown and Isolation due to COVID-19
At this stage, nobody knows how long the lockdown could go on. Hopefully, it won’t be for too long, but I hope it will be long enough to make a difference and slow down the spread of the virus. But, as time goes on, many people will really be struggling with feelings of loneliness and isolation. Despite being on a lockdown or if you’re self-isolating, it’s crucial to keep in touch with loved ones.

Don’t Lose Touch With People
It’s important to keep in touch with families and friends, for their sake as well as our own. They’re having to cope with isolation too.
Thanks to modern technology, we are able to keep in touch easily. Catch up with people using the phone, video links or set up groups online so that you can have family get-togethers.
If you know older or vulnerable people who are having to shield themselves for three months, they’ll be lonely too, so do give them a ring now and again for a chat. Helping them could help you.
Use Distractions to help Cope With the Lockdown and Isolation
I’ve written before that distractions can help people to cope with pain. They will also help you to cope with the lockdown and the isolation which comes with it as well as all the distressing news.
Here are a few ideas:
Hobbies and Crafts
Perhaps it’s time to take up a new hobby or rekindle an old one. No supplies? Look around you. Start quilting using squares of fabric from clothes you no longer wear. Grab a tin of paint from the garage and paint a piece of furniture you think looks dated. Cut some pictures out of magazines and decoupage them onto a biscuit tin.
Write
Start writing. There’s a saying that everyone has a book in them. Go on, make a start on yours.
Bake and Cook
If you’ve got the ingredients in your cupboards, you could bake cakes and cookies or you could batch cook meals to freeze.
Puzzles and Games
Jigsaws, crosswords, word searches and sudoku puzzles will keep your brain working. You’ll find plenty online.
Online Jigsaws
Online Sudoku Puzzles
Online Crosswords & Wordsearches
Board games like Scrabble or Monopoly will also keep you and your household entertained.
Clean The House
We’re probably all reaching for the bleach more than normal anyway, so why not do some Spring cleaning. It might get rid of frustrations and use up energy. And you’ll end up with a sparkling house.
Declutter
Clear out your wardrobes and cupboards to declutter. Have you ever said, I need to do it but I don’t have the time? Now you do.
Gardening
If you have a garden, make the most of it and enjoy the fresh air. But also make the most of your extra free time by planting flowers or vegetables.
Obviously, you can’t go to garden centres just now because you have to stay at home and they’ve had to lock their doors. But many garden centres are still working and providing a delivery service because, if they didn’t, all their plants would be left to die. It would be sad to see that happen.
My Dad has just had some lovely plants delivered by Reynard Nursery in South Lanarkshire, Scotland. They take the payment over the phone, then drop the plants off with no personal contact.
Contact your local garden centre because most likely, they are still selling and will deliver whatever you need. You’ll have a lovely garden and you’ll be supporting a local, often family-run, business.
Exercise
You don’t need to leave your house or your own garden to exercise. Back in the eighties, keep fit videos were all the rage. My Mum used to exercise with Mad Lizzie every morning.
Now, with YouTube, we are spoiled for choice.
One guy who is doing a keep fit routine every morning is Joe Wicks, The Body Coach. The extra nice thing about Joe is that he is donating his Youtube profits to the NHS. Click here to visit his YouTube channel.
Virtual Tours of Places to Go and Things to See
Make the most of free websites which allow you to virtually visit tourist attractions, museums, art galleries, zoos etc.
Here are a few you might want to visit.
Virtual Tours of Places to Go
Scotland
Stonehenge
Taj Mahal
Eiffel Tower
Virtual Tours of Museums and Galleries
National Museums Scotland, Edinburgh, Scotland
The British Museum, London, England
The National Gallery, London, England
National History Museum, London, England
Van Gogh Museum, Amsterdam, Netherlands
Musée du Louvre, Paris, France
National Museum of Natural History, Washington D.C., USA
Virtual Animals
Chester Zoo, Cheshire, England
San Diego Zoo, California, USA
Blair Drummond Safari Park, Stirling, Scotland
Wildlife Webcams in Scotland
If you’ve virtually seen all of these virtual attractions, then please check out this link by Helen’s Journey for some more amazing places to visit from the comfort of your armchair.
How to Cope With the Kids During Lockdown and Isolation
If you have kids at home, most of the above ideas will work with them too. But the internet is full of helpful posts. A blogging friend published this post earlier this week – How to Entertain Children for Free During the Coronavirus
Here are a few more:
Keeping Your Kids Happy, Busy & Learning if Their School Closes Due to Coronavirus
50 Cheap Activities to Keep Children Entertained
How to keep a preschooler busy
Dealing With Hair During Lockdown and Isolation
Coping with isolation is one thing, but you might struggle to cope with your hair. Depending on how long the lockdown goes on, we could all start to look a wee bit bedraggled.
Over the years, I’ve become accustomed to picking up the kitchen scissors and whacking a bit off my hair here and there. But if you do eventually want to be seen in public, that’s maybe not advisable.

However, if your locks are beginning to get that dreaded look about them, you could always turn to Youtube for some quick DIY tutorials.
Disclaimer: I’ve never used these tutorials so I can’t attest to their quality. In other words…don’t blame me if your hairdo becomes a hairdon’t.
For the ladies
For the men
For the girls
For the boys
For the dog
Volunteer
Volunteering could help you cope with the lockdown and help other people cope with the isolation it brings. It could help you but it will definitely help other people.
Local Groups
Most areas have set up local groups to check on vulnerable people or collect shopping or medication for them.
NHS Volunteer Responders
Volunteers must be 18 or over and fit and well with no symptoms. Those in higher-risk groups (including those over 70, those who are pregnant or with underlying medical conditions) will be able to offer support by telephone.
Volunteering in Scotland
Ready Scotland has some information about similar volunteering opportunities in Scotland.
Remember to Breathe and Relax
This is a stressful time for everyone so remember to take time out to breathe and relax. Get into your garden, or if you don’t have one, open your windows so you can fill your lungs with fresh air.
I hope this post helps people who are struggling to cope with the lockdown and the isolation which comes with it. Please remember, it isn’t forever. You can do this.
Stay home ~ Save lives

I said to a group of friends there no way I want to hear any of them say “I don’t have the time to do…” We should all have the cleanest houses and most beautiful lawns and gardens after all of this is over. I find myself with time to pick up the guitar again and just enjoy having both my girls home all the time. For us the simplest thing has been all having dinner together, a rarity during non-pandemic times. This too shall pass if everyone heeds the warnings and stays safe and inside and practices social distancing.
I’ve actually been busier at the moment because of falling behind on things, financial worries, health problems, parental health problems, and of course having to go to numerous different shops even though I shouldn’t be going out at all just because it’s been impossible to get the essentials! Anyway, while home life is nothing new for many of us with chronic illness it’s helpful even for us to think outside the box a little for ways to cope, to distract, to improve overall wellbeing. These are excellent suggestions! I’m also a little tempted now to try a DIY hairdo (that will undoubtedly become a hairdont). Only one way to find out how good those tutorials are..?
I hope you can have a restful weekend, Liz. Stay safe ♥
Caz xx
These are great tips. I’m a homebody and I work from home so the isolation hasn’t affected me too much. I think it’s important to get some fresh air whenever possible and I’ve started an indoor veggie garden, which hopefully means I can visit the grocery store less often in the coming months.
This lockdown has created work for me as it seems everyone wants my opinion, great post as ever Liz xx
So many good tips! I was great about cleaning the first week or so, but my toddler destroys everything in 2.5 seconds. I’v’e found working out helps a ton too! Even if it’s just a 15 minute yoga flow!
These are great tips. My close friends and I have set up a group chat on Facebook, and we have been chatting every single day. I have been spending time with my daughter, cooking and other activities together.
I am very busy now and I do miss going out but I cope with it finding time to organize my house more and video chatting a lot. I am also super happy with all this free online opera and theater streams, I never had time/money for that before
I watched a virtual tour of a zoo recently, watching red pandas, it was so lovely. I think that virtual tours is my favourite item on your list of things to do although I do love crafts as well.
I honestly never realized how much I went out before the virus stopped me. Now I’m stuck at home because there’s no reason for me to take Nathan to work and keep my truck, especially since he is working less. Where am I going to go? That’s been a huge struggle for me, because every time I do get out, I’m never on my own, never out long, and never really out of my truck. Every time he does come home, he says, “I just want to sit and do nothing.” Which I feel like I die inside every time. That’s been my biggest struggle, because life isn’t much different for him. Nathan still goes to work every day, and I can’t escape. My entertainment is picking a fight with Tigger so he’ll slap at me. I have found this week that if we go walking in an area not populated by people about twice a week, I do pretty well. Usually I get antsy when I know I need to sit down and work, so if I can get that out of my system, I’m more productive. Recognizing that and saying something has been a massive help. I’ve only had one real meltdown, and I’m calling that a huge win.
Isn’t it odd how the whole world is now housebound and isolating instead of just those with chronic illness? What a turn-around!
You’ve got some great ideas here – I will share!
Sue
Living with ME/CFS
There are some fab suggestions here Liz. I must admit, I’ve used this time while being safe at home to get a lot of my decluttering done – and it feels so good. Even in these dark, uncertain times there are some silver linings. I’ve found a decluttered house is helping to give me a clearer mind. And it can be done in small steps too. A draw a day can make you feel good. Hope you’re keeping well and safe Liz x